Wednesday, July 15, 2026
The Charms Of Tuscany
Friday, July 10, 2026
Thursday, July 9, 2026
The Other Bennet Sister
It is a truth universally acknowledged that women in want of a Jane Austen adaptation are compelled to watch all those they find...
In this case (an adaptation of a riff on Pride and Prejudice), a win:
With delightful choices made throughout,
the series is better than the book in my opinion.
Friday, July 3, 2026
Cape Verde vs Argentina
Wednesday, July 1, 2026
Colombia
We ended up with two weeks free in June and I couldn't resist searching the internet for "cheapest international flight". Evan was brave and took the leap. Ben was game for adventure. We booked tickets to Bogotá on Monday and left that Sunday. I broke my brain trip planning in the days between.
The natural beauty of the place was stunning...
Rio Claro, Valle de las Cascadas, Rio Melcocho (where electricity arrived in 2012), Cabo Corrientes. Ben swung on lainas into swimming holes below oropendola nests. Flocks of toucans and troops of monkeys kept us company as we bathed off a beach of marble bedrock. We spotted sea turtles, leaping manta rays, and a sea serpent from a lancha cutting through warm Pacific waters. Rain brought relief from the heat at night. Lightning illuminated a basilisk and ocelot crossing patio tiles.
People were lovely...
Johnny (the gay bartender at Dios), the kids whom Ben played hard with (Clemente, Maria, Ílan, and Selva), the grownups with their stories of the época de violencia as well as cultural and environmental conservation efforts (Eliana whose French husband is a safety kayaker, Clemente's grandfather, Néstor and Yoly, Sandra and Hernán, Alejandro and Marcella). We saw almost no foreigners on our travels, but plenty of Colombians were out and about on school break.
Bearing witness to history was unanticipated...
Families traveling by mule to vote in Santa Inés for the next president (the drunken policeman that day as well as those stricken by the results). We watched World Cup games in an Irish pub and gathered with friends sipping viche around a laptop that trailed the kitchen radio by minutes.
Lessons learned...
No need to trek in the tropics again. Next time, we ride on top of a chiva. Yellow Fever vaccinations are free at the Bogotá airport. When in the bookstore, buy the book. We considered this hotel, but were glad we ended up at this one. No need for rainjackets, but a fan is clutch (as was a lack of checked bags). There are two airports in Medellín.
Details I want to remember...
How everybody greeted "¡Buenos Días!" in unison with an echoed reply. The blind man with his stick, the woman lifting small weights, and the ultra cyclists all making their way along the side of the highway in a haze of exhaust from the semis hurtling by. The road signs urging drivers to be mindful of sloths, armadillos, squirrels, and tortoises.
Saturday, June 6, 2026
Telemetry
We are of it and return to it (in dreams, waking life, death).
Friday, June 5, 2026
Biggering
Feeling a lack of luck?
Expand the surface area of your life so luck has a greater chance of finding you.
Feeling owned by an emotion?
Expand your life (notice the bird outside the window, take up a new hobby, bike to school the long way) and the ratio changes.
Friday, May 15, 2026
I Believe This To Be True
- Any creature that feels unsafe is potentially dangerous.
- Behavior makes sense if you know the whole story. We often don't. Understandable is not the same as excusable.
- Everyone is doing the best they can with what they've got. A person's best is sometimes under-resourced (shitty).
- The universe is an expanding system, one sacred whole that is ever transforming.
- The key indicators of health in any ecosystem (be it a human family or a planet) are levels of biodiversity and interconnection.
Thursday, May 14, 2026
Tuesday, May 12, 2026
Loss
you don't realize it yet
that this is when
you began to lose him
each ship sailing on
as it was meant to sail
(needed to sail)
parting company
you thought your work was done
your gaze shifted
loss is a surprise
in the wake of your vigilance
with loss
will come grief and shame
their own ocean
to drown in or cross
to be a child
who has lost a child
is a risk for
eldest daughters
Sunday, May 10, 2026
Mother Lover
Monday, May 4, 2026
Some Slippery Words
Religion is mythology that has present day believers.
Terrorism is retaliatory aggression by the side with less power.
Immigrant is an ex-pat from the global south.
Sunday, April 19, 2026
Letter Writing
One of my dad's superpowers is writing cards to accompany gifts and one of my mom's is writing (period). Maybe I inherited some mixture of the two. I have always loved writing letters.
Like the protagonist in The Correspondent, I have shamelessly written to whomever I have felt moved to write to in my life. Sometimes I have received a letter back in response.
Most meaningful-to-me have been letters exchanged with a true pen pal in my thirties. I credit that practice with preparing the ground for my relationship with Evan.
I think about Isabel Allende who famously wrote letters to her mother beginning when she was 44 years old. I imagine the magic of a correspondence like that with Ben.
I believe letter writing encourages a revelation of self and experience, a humanizing process which can't help but foster connection-- a slow burn in this mad, mad world.
Saturday, April 11, 2026
Pope Leo's Prayer For Peace
Everyone has a place in the mosaic of peace! The Rosary, like other ancient forms of prayer, has united us this evening in its steady rhythm built on repetition. Peace gains ground in the same way: word by word, deed by deed, just as a rock is hollowed out drop by drop or fabric woven stitch by stitch. These are the slow rhythms of life, a sign of God’s patience. We must not allow ourselves to be overwhelmed by the pace of a world that does not know what it is chasing. Rather, we must return to serving the rhythm of life, the harmony of creation, and healing its wounds. As Pope Francis taught us, “There is a need for peacemakers, men and women prepared to work boldly and creatively to initiate processes of healing and renewed encounter. There is an architecture of peace, to which different institutions of society contribute, each according to its own area of expertise. There is an art of peace that involves us all."
Friday, April 10, 2026
Artemis II
Monday, April 6, 2026
Wednesday, March 25, 2026
The Power And The Quiet
The Quiet arrived quickly and completely in the wake of The Power. No background hum of electricity, no sounds of engines at work. The chatter and sway of global systems collapsed into silence and stillness although their debris continued to listlessly orbit the planet. For some, The Quiet's localism felt imposed and impossible. Those who tried striking out for better during the initial fright found that fumes could only bring them as far as a place en route. During The Power, any question could be answered but few were asking the right questions. During The Quiet, everyone was asking the right questions but there were few answers.
Wednesday, March 11, 2026
Tuesday, February 17, 2026
Monday, February 9, 2026
Time Traveler
Ben built a time machine, complete with a sidecar for Dash:
They traveled to the Pleistocene and the Jurassic and brought back photos of what they saw...
Then, the next day, Ben used foam from a bubble bath to travel to the future and learned magic tricks.
Sunday, February 8, 2026
Super Bowl Halftime Show
Thursday, February 5, 2026
Human Design
An addition to the cartography of self...
Evan is a generator, I am a manifestor, and we have a manifesting generator child? Is that like how Evan is a golden rooster, I'm a fire snake, and we have a fire rooster child?
I love this stuff:
mysterious, insightful, curious, wonderful.
Wednesday, February 4, 2026
Beware
...the soul-sucking force of reasonableness.
